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A story of how a home visitor's bond with a mother propelled her into a career where she extends the same support to other moms.
When Fatima became pregnant in 2015, she and her husband, Orlance, had planned the pregnancy. But when baby Mahlia arrived, life was far from the serene experience Fatima anticipated.
Instead, it was marked by an emergency c-section and a resuscitation. Despite Mahlia's recovery, she proved to be a colicky baby. “We had no family nearby. We needed help. Orlance had no time off…I was alone and could barely move after the c-section. I was struggling. I felt depressed. Mahlia wouldn’t stop crying.”
Fatima believed that surely there was some kind of help for her situation. She decided to walk down to her local library. There she found a resource board with a flyer that said, “Are you a new mom? Do you need support? We have a program for you.” Fatima ripped the paper off the board and connected to a HRSA Home Visiting Program called Parents As Teachers in Columbia, Missouri.
“I met my parent educator, Ms. Christie. From the first time she walked into my house, she was just this ray of light,” described Fatima. Fatima learned to navigate the highs and lows of motherhood with newfound confidence. Ms. Christie supported the wide variety of needs Fatima had, from helping her to understand her baby’s developmental stages to setting educational goals.
“Ms. Christie supported and pushed me to get my Master’s degree. She helped me make plans that increased my confidence in myself so that I could make this dream—which honestly seemed a bit crazy at the time—a reality.” Fatima overcame her fears, went back to school, and earned a Master’s degree in Education. At the same time as completing her degree, there was an opening at the home visiting program where Ms. Christie worked. Ms. Christie encouraged Fatima to apply for the position.
“I applied. It was one of the best interviews I’ve ever had, and they immediately asked me to take the job. But I was like, ‘Wait. If I take this job, can I keep my home visitor?’ And they said, ‘Yes.’ So I said yes!” Fatima described, beaming with joy.
After a few years, during the COVID-19 pandemic, Fatima and her family welcomed their son, Malakhi. During the pregnancy, they decided it was time to move back to Chicago, closer to their grandparents and extended family. Ms. Christie continued to support Fatima. “She was instrumental in helping me find a doctor as the move came just months before Malahki’s birth. Ms. Christie even helped us with our move.”
Fatima did want to work again after settling into life in Chicago. She knew home visiting was a national program, but she had felt her job in Missouri had been “one of a kind.” But once settled in Chicago, serendipity knocked at her door: she found a very special home visiting program embedded at the Primo Center, a shelter serving families.
“To reach and serve people at the Primo Center was incredibly appealing as I was reaching those most in need” Fatima stated. The Primo Center is the only shelter in the Chicago area providing home visiting services on site.
Fatima now serves as the Maternal Health Coordinator, providing a variety of services to make sure moms and families are supported. She feels that one of the best lessons Ms. Christie taught her was that, “Parents can be hard on themselves a lot of the times and have some really high expectations. Just take a step back and really focus on the basics of your kid’s needs and you will raise healthy, happy adults.” Fatima brings that sentiment to her work to encourage the families that she serves. Her positive outlook coupled with her hard work helps create that better world she is seeking.
HRSA Home Visiting Services Program
The HRSA Maternal, Infant, and Early Childhood Home Visiting Program reaches all 50 states, the District of Columbia, and 5 territories. Home visitors and families develop strong relationships and trust through meeting regularly and addressing families’ needs.
The program aims to:
Improve the overall health of mothers and children
Get children ready to succeed in school
Improve families’ economic well-being
Connect families to helpful resources and services
The Primo Center—with funds from the HRSA Home Visiting Program in Illinois(PDF - 178 KB)—is in its 46th year of operation. The center’s mission is to empower families experiencing homelessness to become productive, responsible, and independent members of their community. The HRSA Home Visiting Program is just one of the many services the center provides. Primo Center enriches the lives of children from 0-5 by bringing trauma-informed care to build their resilience, and by focusing on education, including operating an innovative early childhood center and home visiting program. Parent-child relationships are strengthened through a variety of parenting support services.